Category: Personal Development

New Astrology Healing

There is so much that is done in astrology that is diagnostic as opposed to being proactively healing. This changes that! This healing session compares your current bioenergetic field to your astrological chart. Any discord between the two is neutralized and then optimized to be in sync with your path so your life unfolds as you set it up, before incarnation.

In addition to the natal wheel and 14 asteroids (including Chiron, Ceres, Juno, Pallas and Vest.) I use 9 harmonic charts which provide greater depth to the healing because of their revealed aspect patterns.
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Fulfilled Life of Service

I just had a dream and a subsequent revelation. I think the revelation might be applicable to your life too, so I thought I’d share it with you.

I realized that some time ago, when I gave my life to be of service to humanity  I attached an unspoken understanding that I would sacrifice my life (set my personal interests aside.) Today I realized  I can have a fulfilling life and be fully of service to humanity at the same time.

It’s like the shift I made about money – going from a scarcity mentality to an abundance mentality., that you can be spiritual and have money. And, money is good if it ultimately helps you to more fully serve humanity.

My life can be abundant in every way. I can live my personal dreams and be fully committed to serving humanity. So, I verbally stated to the Universe that my previous pledge about serving humanity is now complete. I then made new pledge that included fully serving humanity while having the fulfilling life of my yearnings….. Immediately I felt things shift in my body and energy field.

Magical Relationships

She said “My husband loves that I am assertive and self confident but he only wants me to be that way in private. In public he wants me to be quiet. And I’m beginning to see that in private he wants to be in control, to have the final say. I was bullied in my previous marriage. I won’t compromise myself anymore. ”

At that moment I realized I’ve been living the solution to her dilemma. It began almost a year earlier, when a charter member of a group I had recently joined encouraged me to talk to the group’s founder. She said something like “You’re the help he needs.” Since then Guy and I have collaborated on numerous creative projects and administrative decisions. That in itself is no big thing, people work together all the time but Guy aggravates me so much it’s been unlike any working relationship I’ve ever had. That certainly doesn’t sound like there’s a relationship solution there so let me give you some background. You will better understand why I think what I have learned is a solution for my client’s marital dilemma.

Guy and I are both strong willed independent minded entrepreneurs. We are opposites in many ways, and I am a “never gonna happen again” woman who comes from a male dominated childhood and prior marriage where I felt emotionally diminished. On the other hand we are in sync in many ways. We have a shared vision for our group, complimentary aesthetic tastes, a history of high level positive collaboration in many lifetimes together, and a rare closeness and respect of eachother.

We are also so comfortable with eachother we tend to be uncommonly straightforward in our conversations. Once, after overhearing us working through a design disagreement someone asked me if Guy and I were married. Surprised, I asked him why he thought that. He said it was because of how we were arguing with eachother. After thinking about it, I understood what he meant. You see, Guy and I were so aggravated with eachother I think we both wished we could have pulled out paint ball guns and creamed eachother, but underneath that was, and is, a clear, unshakable bond of respect, and commitment to finding mutually workable solutions.

Over time I’ve learned to trust Guy’s decisions and know that he respects and values my insights. It hasn’t come easily. There are things I felt strongly should have been done right away but he wouldn’t act on them. I didn’t have the administrative power to act so I spent many agonizing days doing energy healing on myself learning to let go. And then amazing things would happen, It would turn out, by observable circumstances, that his decision not to act was the right decision. There were other times he didn’t act and over time my sense of its importance continued until it was burning a hole in my head. I would go to him, tell him my head was on fire, and then, so amazing, he would set his ego aside and say “because it bothers you so much I will take care of it.” In those instances too we saw almost immediate positive outcomes.

Recently I had a vision of us being priest and priestess. I was there to serve him so he could serve humanity. In turn he was there to meet my needs so I could fulfill my life’s mission. Later that day I received the phone call from the wife who was concerned about giving up her self in compromise to her husband. A revelation flashed in my head. I am willingly surrendering my ego to Guy while maintaining my high self esteem and confidence.

Many times I’ve heard the passage in the New Testament that men are to love their wives as themselves and women are to submit to/respect their husbands. (Ephesians 5.) To be honest, I’ve never personally seen that modeled by couples where I could identify with the woman. So, when I realized Guy and I, in our work relationship, are living that concept it just blew my mind.

I shared this story with the wife and the next day with another strong woman who had just gone through a divorce. We were all shaken and speechless. I know there are more than just the three of us who have wrestled with maintaining our identity and value in a relationship so I thought it would be good to write it out for you all to read.

Surrendering vs Succumbing by Marie Forleo
“There is a certain amount of surrendering to your partner that is necessary if you want to have a magical relationship. I know this is a question that comes up, what is the difference between surrendering and succumbing to just what that other person wants? That’s where being clear and present is really useful. When you’re here in the moment you are free from your mental thoughts and your past conditioning and from all the ideas you’ve obsorbed over a lifetime of what it means to be a woman, or a good woman, or a sexy woman, or whatever. Your truth is there so you’re able to communicate from such a clear place from such a neutral place and compassionate place to the man you are with you can really make things work without much struggle.”

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It’s in the Details

One of my friends shows his Instant Messenger status as “Away” all the time. I mean ALL the time, not just alot of the time. His status is never “Available,” even when he is at his computer.

This reminds me of an experience that took place one summer day when I was in junior high. My friends and I walked to a small amusement park that was less than a mile from my house. We were there for quite a while and as we were leaving we met some cute guys in the parking lot. I don’t remember how long we stayed and talked to them but I was aware I was going to be late for dinner.

Now, you might not be thinking this, but this was back when there were no cel phones. If I were going to be responsible and call my mom to let her know I was going to be late I would have had to walk away from the excitement, and we all know that walking away from something like that seems to break the magic and when you come back it’s all over. So, there was no way I was going to walk away to call my mom.

When I got home my mom was furious because she didn’t know where I was or if something bad had happened to me. The first thing that went through my mind was “I knew I was ok so I knew there was nothing to be worried about.” My mom didn’t appreciate that remark.

In the same way, my friend knows if he’s at his computer. He knows if he’s available but no one else knows that. When I look at my buddy list, under his name it says “Away” and next to his name is a big red dot that screams “STOP.” It has been this way for several months.

He recently told me that he’s been stressed, which usually means he is having money issues. I have to think “well, sheesh, by posting that away “sign” to the world you are sending out the vibration of “I am not here for anyone. No wonder your revenue stream has slowed down.”

Our Instant Messenger status is not talked about in classic Feng Shui, but man, all those little details in our lives do send out harmonious or discordant vibrations. It’s been said that “design is in the details.” With design, paying attention to small details—and in some cases, obsessively focusing on “what isn’t right”—can take a design from “nearly there” to “there” and beyond.*

Perhaps it’s time to ask that our eyes become open to something we perceive is ok in our life that others are seeing differently.

*Design is in the Detail by Naz Hamid

A WHOLE NEW OUTLOOK

When a friend or family member is not in sync with us it can be frustrating. We think their views, their likes, their enjoyments should be the same as ours. Sheesh, how could anyone not love something I am ecstatic about? Yeah, I know they have their own path. Do I really want them to leave that path and hop onto mine? OK, so I said yes to that.

Think about this. Boats are wonderful things, canoes, speed boats, sail boats, kyaks, row boats etc. Being on the water itself has its own special qualities. Now, think about that boat in the sky. Doesn’t work does it? So, if you are a person whose journey is in the sky but you are attracted to a certain boat why would you want to take that boat up into the sky? What do you do? Please leave a comment below….